I should, no, I shouldn’t or maybe? No, I won’t put my step into business…
Thursday, 22 October 2009
Author: Bruce Mind
Hesitation - that's what prevented me 5 or so years ago to take internet business advantage. Yep, it took me 5 years to come back and face hesitation again. Wasted 5 years I now know I had ill attitude. I was full of shitty self-destructive thoughts that made me tinier and more depressive every day.
At least my head was full of dreams and future plans. Nevertheless all of them seemed unreachable or unrealizable. It seems now all I needed then was a little push, a short conversation with someone who went though the same. My final push was a book.

If you're at the same hesitation state I was at back then, I know you're looking for that push. Hopefully I'll kick your ass hard enough to take the first step!
Your attitude
If you want to but not doing business, no matter physical or online, something, that I probably know, stops you. This fear or self doubt is met very often in our lives. Starting business probably seems too big fish for you. Correct me if I'm mistaken, but your thoughts are:
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"That's impossible, I can't make that"
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"What if I fail?"
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"I know too few things about internet and programming"
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"I'm too old/young to start doing this"
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"Competitors will crush me like a bug"
Am I right? Ok, now just STOP for a moment. Such thoughts eat all your positive energy and willingness to achieve. Pull them out one by one. Here's how you do that: simply talk to yourself. Find reasons why you should start learning business secrets (You must already have many!). Ask your self 'are my doubts realistic? Maybe my hesitation exaggerated? Maybe I'm just shitting in my pants while others stuffing dollars into their pockets...' No one else, only yourself decide when to start.
Why do you think it's impossible? Millionaires are geniuses and you're not? Stop eating yourself and read some stories about millionaires that came from street. Also forget "fortune smiles upon some lucky ones". Yeah fortune really does that but only for maybe 1 out of 1000 millionaires. The wealthy are hard-working people!
And what if you fail? Um, did you know you can start online business almost for free? You will loose some time, but failing once is not the end. Failing is one of the components of road to success.
People-alarms are great enemies too, especially when you're taking the first step in something. Who are these people? They're the ones that tend to remind you're a loser, you'll fail, it's too difficult, you'll never succeed and so on... Probably they're losers, don't dream about bigger things and/or don't want you to become bigger than they are. Usually they're jealous you're proactive. They fortify your hesitation to take action.
What should you do about them? Firstly, if you call such person a friend - give it another thought. Or at least try teaching him positive attitude. Don't discuss your business plans; don't even mention your ideas and ambitions if you want do business and stay friends with them. And find new friends with positive attitude.
What does it mean to own a business?
It means new responsibilities, new ventures and new relationships. You'll be learning new things and will consistently grow. It means a totally new lifestyle. Can't say anything more - you have to see it by yourself.
I'm not telling you'll be free of work and be rich, but having business online has huge advantages. You can leave it unwatched for few days. You can invest as much or as less time as you want. To start one you don't need a loan and much more...
And what is a better time to start learning new things than now? Say 'tomorrow' and the rest of the story you already know... Act now. Wish you obsession.
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Hesitation - that's what prevented me 5 or so years ago to take internet business advantage. Yep, it took me 5 years to come back and face hesitation again. Wasted 5 years I now know I had ill attitude. I was full of shitty self-destructive thoughts that made me tinier and more depressive every day.
At least my head was full of dreams and future plans. Nevertheless all of them seemed unreachable or unrealizable. It seems now all I needed then was a little push, a short conversation with someone who went though the same. My final push was a book.

If you're at the same hesitation state I was at back then, I know you're looking for that push. Hopefully I'll kick your ass hard enough to take the first step!
Your attitude
If you want to but not doing business, no matter physical or online, something, that I probably know, stops you. This fear or self doubt is met very often in our lives. Starting business probably seems too big fish for you. Correct me if I'm mistaken, but your thoughts are:
-
"That's impossible, I can't make that"
-
"What if I fail?"
-
"I know too few things about internet and programming"
-
"I'm too old/young to start doing this"
-
"Competitors will crush me like a bug"
Am I right? Ok, now just STOP for a moment. Such thoughts eat all your positive energy and willingness to achieve. Pull them out one by one. Here's how you do that: simply talk to yourself. Find reasons why you should start learning business secrets (You must already have many!). Ask your self 'are my doubts realistic? Maybe my hesitation exaggerated? Maybe I'm just shitting in my pants while others stuffing dollars into their pockets...' No one else, only yourself decide when to start.
Why do you think it's impossible? Millionaires are geniuses and you're not? Stop eating yourself and read some stories about millionaires that came from street. Also forget "fortune smiles upon some lucky ones". Yeah fortune really does that but only for maybe 1 out of 1000 millionaires. The wealthy are hard-working people!
And what if you fail? Um, did you know you can start online business almost for free? You will loose some time, but failing once is not the end. Failing is one of the components of road to success.
People-alarms are great enemies too, especially when you're taking the first step in something. Who are these people? They're the ones that tend to remind you're a loser, you'll fail, it's too difficult, you'll never succeed and so on... Probably they're losers, don't dream about bigger things and/or don't want you to become bigger than they are. Usually they're jealous you're proactive. They fortify your hesitation to take action.
What should you do about them? Firstly, if you call such person a friend - give it another thought. Or at least try teaching him positive attitude. Don't discuss your business plans; don't even mention your ideas and ambitions if you want do business and stay friends with them. And find new friends with positive attitude.
What does it mean to own a business?
It means new responsibilities, new ventures and new relationships. You'll be learning new things and will consistently grow. It means a totally new lifestyle. Can't say anything more - you have to see it by yourself.
I'm not telling you'll be free of work and be rich, but having business online has huge advantages. You can leave it unwatched for few days. You can invest as much or as less time as you want. To start one you don't need a loan and much more...
And what is a better time to start learning new things than now? Say 'tomorrow' and the rest of the story you already know... Act now. Wish you obsession.
My 21 birthday was a turnaround of my life. I stopped dreaming and started acting. I started learning and following my dreams. And why am I here? I will share with you my experiences and hopefully you will learn from both my successes and losses. I'm willing to learn from you too. Let's GO together! Read more..
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